Forgiveness

Musings on forgiveness

Forgiveness in the Bible seems to be about:

Releasing people

Untying them

Setting them free

 

For me to truly forgive people

I need to accept them exactly as they are

Release the expectation/s I had of them

Untie them from my needs and desires in my relationship with them

Set them free from my judgements about their behaviour

Allow them to be themselves and/or to wear their desired facades (as we all do)

And love them

 

I may protect myself from danger

I may alter the conditions of the relationship in order to forgive myself just as much as I forgive them

I may desire a healthier relationship between us and I may even ask for one

 

But I forgive and accept when relationships are not the way I want them to be

I trust that in the afterlife God’s greater forgiveness will heal and release us from all relational bondage

And will reconcile us one to another

As He is LOVE so we are LOVE in this World

There are two major points in 1 John 4. The first is that God is love and anything not of love is of the antichrist. The second is that just as God is love, so we not only ought to love, but actually are the embodiment of love in this world.

John begins this chapter by warning his readers against false teachers and tells them to test the spirits. We have nenikhkate (nenikekate) meaning victory in battle or surpassing ability, over these spirits because God remains in us and he is greater.

Verses 7 & 8 tell us that people who do not love, do not know God. In fact, by using the aorist (undefined) verbal form of ‘egnw (egno) it indicates that the person who does not love has never even begun to know God. We are given the reason this is the case in the next phrase: o{ti o{ qeos ‘agaph ‘estin (hoti ho theos agape estin): God is love. We should not mistake this phrase for ‘God is loving,’ because if love is only one aspect of God’s character then he could be known by other characteristics. But if love is his essence, then he cannot truly be known by one who does not know love, as stated in verse 8.

God demonstrates his love by sending his son as the i{lasmon (hilasmon) for our sins (verse 10) which is often translated propitiation (appeasing the anger or wrath of God). In the broader context of the letter, John is talking about cleansing (1:7&9), forgiveness / letting go (1:9 & 2:12), purification (3:3&5), and God being love (4:8); a love that makes us his children (3:1) and lays down its life (3:16). John has contrasted love and hate with light and dark (1:5-7 & 2:8-11); life and death (2:17 & 3:14-15); God and the Devil (3:8). He never once uses the word wrath or anger, and punishment does not occur until 4:17, which will be addressed shortly. {Ilasmon likely cannot mean propitiation in this context. In the Septuagint, Leviticus 16:13-15 uses the word i{lasthrion (hilasterion) for mercy seat in a context of cleansing. As John uses the same context, I believe John is also using i{lasmon as mercy seat.

John’s comment, in verse 12, that God is unseen seems to be a corrective toward the false teachers mentioned at the beginning of the chapter. They may have claimed to know and to see God through mystical visions, but John is saying we know and see God in the sending of his son which is the demonstration of his essence–love–and so we love one another. The secessionists did not believe they were subject to sin, and yet they were haughty and unloving. John makes love the highest test of a relationship with God, not visions or other mystical experiences. Verse 13 further emphasises John’s corrective by explaining that those who remain in him have the spirit of God. God’s spirit is not limited to the mystics.

The Father has sent the son as swthra (sotera) / saviour / rescuer / deliverer / preserver of the world (verse 14)! This implies universal salvation and verse 15 clarifies that whoever agrees / confesses Jesus as the son of God, remains in God. John further explains in verse 16 that it is those who love that remain in God and God in them. To truly agree with Jesus is to abide in his love, and therefore to love one another. This is the outworking of our salvation. So while I believe that the whole world is saved, I believe we are also being saved by the outworking of love in our lives. This may even take into eternity as we will see in the coming verses.

The word parrhsia (parresia) which we often translate ‘confidence,’ means speech that conceals nothing, / outspokenness / frankness / openness i.e. to the public / boldness / confidence / fearlessness. Parrhsia is also known as “the voice of friendship” in the Greco-Roman world, meaning confidence in the context of relational intimacy. It is assurance or security in the midst of raw, naked openness. So we will have confident-openness on the day of judgement if/because love is made complete within us.

Now we arrive at the crux of it all: {Oti kaqws ‘ekeinos, kai h{meis ‘esmen ‘en tw kosmw toutw, literally: that/since/because just as he/she/it is, so we are in this world. This follows John declaring that God is love twice in verses 8 and 16. I believe John intended to portray: ‘that just as he is love, so we are love in this world.’ Love is what we were created to be and love is what gives us confident-openness.

There is no fear of punishment in love. Interestingly, there are alternative views on the definition of kolasis (kolasis) which we generally translate as punishment. William Barclay connects it to pruning trees, which is something John himself refers to in his Gospel (chapter 15 in particular). I believe kolasis is remedial punishment not punitive. The “punishment” has to do with how well we love. If we hate our brothers and sisters we need to reconcile with them, forgive one another and learn to love. That is “punishment” if it is something we are resisting. But if we are perfect in love then there is nothing is punish, discipline or correct.

At the end of the chapter, John re-emphasises that we have not seen God, but we know him by his love which naturally causes us to love. If we do not love, then we do not know him and claiming to know him is a lie. Again, this could be aimed at the more mystical believers of John’s day, but is just as pertinent for us today.

In summary, 1 John is a letter about walking in the light as God is in the light. Since God is love, we are to walk in love. More than that, we know that we remain in him and he in us if we produce the fruit of love. In fact the fruit will grow naturally, because, just as he is love, so we are love in this world. Anyone who hates his brothers or sisters has not been made complete in love, and may not really have encountered the God who is love. We should beware of false teachers who do not walk in love because this is of the spirit of the antichrist.

The Book of Revelation

The Revelation of Jesus Christ
Is about the Gospel in the end times
And in the age to come
The aionion
The “forever”

Revelation 21:1-8 paraphrase
Then I saw
A new heaven
And a new earth
The Holy City
Coming down out of heaven from God
Prepared as a bride
God’s dwelling place is now among the people
He will wipe every tear from their eyes
There will be no more death
‘I am making everything new!
To the thirsty I will give
The water of life
But the unbelieving…liars
Will be consigned to the
Lake of sulfur / fire!’

This is after all people have died and been judged
The new heaven and earth has arrived
Those that “wash their robes in the blood of the lamb” are in heaven (Rev 12:11, 21:14).
The unbelieving liars (who still identify themselves as sinners) are in the lake of fire.

But where is this lake of fire?
Revelation 21:14-15
Blessed are those who wash their robes that they may have the right to the tree of life and may go through the
Gates
Into the city
Outside
Are the dogs who practise falsehood / unbelieving liars.

The lake of fire is outside the gate. Those who have washed their robes in the blood have entered the gate to the heavenly city.
Those who have not are outside in the lake.
But look at what the people in the heavenly city are doing:
Revelation 22:17
The spirit and the bride say
COME
Let those who hear say
COME
Let the one who is thirsty
COME
And let the one who wishes
Take the free gift of the
Water of life!

Wait a second!
This is after death and judgement!
The bride is with Jesus in the new heavenly city, through the gate
And the spirit and the bride are beckoning those
OUTSIDE to
COME INSIDE!!

Who is outside??
All those in the
Lake of fire!

Now the only question is
Do they come in?
Well you see, the climax in any good Jewish story, is always in the middle.
So we have a beginning in chapter 21 where there is a new heaven
And we have an ending in chapter 22 where the spirit and the bride say come
And we have a climax between them
Revelation 21:24-25
The nations (outside in the lake of fire)
Will walk by its (heavenly city) light
And the kings
WILL bring their splendor into it!
On no day will its
Gates
(the gate between the heavenly city and the lake of fire)
Ever be shut!!!
The glory and honor of the nations
WILL BE BROUGHT INTO IT!!!

HALLELUJAH!!!!!!!

“Worthy is the Lamb who was slain
To receive power and wealth
Wisdom and strength
Honor and glory and praise!”
Rev 5:12

“Then I heard
EVERY CREATURE
In heaven and on earth and under the earth and on the sea and
ALL that is in them saying:
‘To him who sits on the throne and to the Lamb
Be praise and honor
Glory and power
Forever and ever!'”
Rev 12:13

“SALVATION
Belongs to our God
Who sits on the throne
And to the Lamb!”
Rev 7:10

“Who will not fear you Lord
And bring glory to your name?
For you alone are holy
ALL THE NATIONS
WILL COME and worship before you
For your righteous acts
Have been revealed!”
Rev 15:4

During the aionion / the forever / the age to come
All the people in the lake of fire
Will enter the gate
To the heavenly city
THIS is why we worship God!
THIS is why all honor and glory are due Him
THIS is why SALVATION belongs to GOD and not to the preachers and teachers or the Jews or the Muslims or the Christians!
THIS is why every knee will bow
And every tongue confess
THIS is the Gospel
THIS is the happily ever after of the entire creation
THIS is His holiness: that he would save every last soul and refuse to give up on a single one!

THIS Jesus is the only God worth worshipping
The only God I will ever bow to
The only God I could ever truly love and trust
Thank you Jesus!!!!!!!

Did God Hate Esau?

“Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated.” What does this mean? Is God unjust? Not at all! For he says to Moses: “I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion.” It does not, therefore, depend on human desire or effort, but on God’s MERCY. For Scripture says of Pharoah: “I raised you up for this very purpose, that I might display my power in you and that my name might be proclaimed in all the earth.” Therefore God has MERCY on whom he wants to have mercy, and he HARDENS whom he wants to harden. Romans 9:13-18

The chapter goes on to describe Esau and Pharoah are “objects of WRATH” in verse 22.

It is time for us to define this wrath and hatred of God.

Ezekiel 16 describes wrath this way:
Verse 27 So I stretched out my hand against you and reduced your territory; I GAVE YOU OVER to the greed of your enemies.
Verse 39 Then I will DELIVER YOU into the hands of your lovers, and THEY will tear down your mounds and destroy your lofty shrines. THEY will strip you of your clothes and take your fine jewellery and leave you stark naked.
Verse 42 Then my WRATH against you will subside and my jealous anger will turn away from you; I will be calm and no longer angry.
Verse 53 However, I will RESTORE the fortunes of Sodom and her daughters and of Samaria and her daughters, and your fortunes along with them.
Verse 60 I will remember the covenant I made with you in the days of your youth, and I will establish an everlasting covenant with you.

God’s only action was to stop protecting the Israelites from the consequences of their sins. He let them go and allowed their enemies to capture and abuse them. But the story ends in restoration not only for Israel but for other nations as well! God’s wrath results in restoration!

Paul takes up this theme of wrath in his letter to the Romans. He says that simultaneously to the Gospel being revealed, God’s wrath is revealed, Romans 1:17-18.
Verse 24-25 Therefore God GAVE THEM OVER in the sinful desires of their hearts … They exchanged the truth about God for a lie and worshipped and served created things rather than the Creator.
Here we have the same phrase that was used in Ezekiel 16, to describe wrath in Romans 1. God’s wrath is to hand his creation over to the consequences of sin.

Wrath is a metaphor for consequences.

In chapter 12 we have this mysterious description of wrath:
Verse 19 Do not take revenge but leave room for God’s WRATH …
Verse 20 If your enemy is hungry feed him; if he is thirsty give him something to drink. In doing this you will heap burning coals on his head!

In the OT burning coals represent repentance and forgiveness. Isaiah 6 shows an angel applying “live coal” to Isaiah’s lips.
Verse 7 See this has touched your lips; your guilt is taken away and your sin atoned for.

God’s wrath leads to repentance.

Returning now to Romans 9 where God “hated” Esau and “hardened” Pharoah and called them “objects of wrath.” God used them to “demonstrate his power” (9:17), to “make known the riches of his glory” (9:23) and to have “mercy on whom he wants to have mercy” (9:18).

God handed Esau and Pharoah over to the consequences of their actions. Esau lost his birth-right to Isreal in the book of Genesis. Pharoah drowned in the Red Sea chasing Israel in the book of Exodus. They were objects of wrath (consequences) to demonstrate God’s favour toward Israel.

But his ultimate purpose was not purely to destroy Esau and Pharoah. They seemed hated. They seemed unfavourable. They seemed like they were no-hopers. But the climax comes in Romans 11.

Verse 25 Israel has experienced a hardening [wrath/hatred] in part until the FULLNESS of the GENTILES has come in. [All Gentiles saved]
Verse 26 And in this way ALL ISRAEL WILL BE SAVED.
Verse 32 For God has bound EVERYONE [not just Esau and Pharoah] over to disobedience that he may have MERCY on them ALL!!!!!

God’s wrath/hatred leads to MERCY.
God will show mercy to whom God will show mercy (9:15)
God shows mercy to EVERYONE! (11:32)